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DOVE OF SADNESS: conversation with a lady (company)

I was looking for almost an hour internet sites which appeared at least one indicator on prostitution in Tacna: I found nothing. If anyone knows of any let me know. Near the house that I rent for five years and I live with my wife and two children, lived until recently held nearly a score of ladies dedicated to the world's oldest profession. Them, every night, were collected in taxis and carried who knows where. Miniskirt, daubed over his ears and smeared with perfume so strong that they managed to sneak through the window of my room located on the other street.

The issue of prostitution in Tacna is so alamarte no longer be controlled. On Industrial Avenue and its environs there are a lot of establishments engaged in this business, in which peacefully, night after night, hundreds of women offering their services. Nothing really strange. We all knew. It is not new story. But that's the problem: all we knew. I know the mayor, the regional president knows, he knows the press knows the Palotes Perico, knows the church, prosecutors know it.

also know that prostitution is directly linked to crime, the abuse of minors, with the Peper, with the assailants disguised as taxi drivers. Again we all know. And again that's the problem. Do you do anything?. Does anyone regulate these establishments?. Does anyone watch the sanitary conditions?. Does anyone safeguard security?. Sure, many know it. We have been. We have seen. We know how it is. And more disturbing.
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After more than five times Paloma finally wanted to talk to me. I've got a interview she said. It's for my blog. Knew it was not blog. But he agreed.

Thing, for well designed, was by telephone. I arrived in Cuzco last year tells me. I think, his leave is not jungle, it's Andes. His mom has a grocery store, her sisters celebrate their occasional visits. She wears silver. It to the pot. The father died he told me. Then it comes back telling me that left them behind. In a way he died I say.

wonder you like working with fear: I always like it when you get paid. The bad news is the bad night, liquor, abuse.

There is some satisfaction that gives you life apart from the money: no response. Do not know no opinion. I have partners. "Companions?, I insist. Mates, no friends. She lives with some of its "Partners" in a rented house in the district of Alto de la Alianza. Never goes out unless it is to work. A woman is charged with addressing some of their most urgent needs, tablets, eggs, injections. It is good he says, but sometimes he gets angry. What is the concept of kindness to this girl?. What do you mean "but sometimes he gets angry?," Screams, beatings, humiliation? I do not know.

Paloma is 25. He knew what was coming. She previously worked in Arequipa and her dream is Chile. But is afraid of earthquakes. Can more fearful to the earthquake that being with hundreds of men who do not know?

If you were not so you are who you want to be. Stupid question but effective. I do not know, I said, maybe stylist. But do not win it. He worked in a clothing store. Became pregnant. The girl lives with her mom. I'm here for her, she says. Is six and goes to school. Paloma

earns more than any public official. Earn more than a policeman or a teacher. But it suffers. Not all are bad I says. There are some who rob that "tab", but not me. Not ashamed to work on this. Do not know anything else. He could not learn. But someday I will. Hopefully.

of working six days a week, you have to drink liquor most. How you hold I say. There are pills for everything is your answer.

have many pigeons in the famous Chupines. Nobody knows. Many come every month. Will carry many diseases. Nobody knows.

I searched the internet for over an hour an indicator on prostitution in Tacna: nothing. Let the party of the gigolos, the moms, pimps. Continue to abuse, theft, sadness. Nobody here knows anything. If someone knows something tell me.

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PEACE IS BUSY DOCTOR REFER TO THE HOUSE NOMAS

Yesterday afternoon the least of my Gambetta, Vicente Facundo, bursting with ear pain. Screaming, crying, snot, all huddled in my child who found solace in anything. We came rushing to the emergency hospital Hipólito Unanue, looking for the helping hand of the pediatrician on call, with the distant hope that he could receive. Eye hope. Very strange indeed, in any hospital in the world that we would have the right to attend. Here in Tacna, no. Here comes the hope not to the right. With the hope not to the right. And when, thanks to divine providence we should thank the heavens treated as if we were doing a favor and not fulfilling the duty for which they pay.

arrived, we attended a lady practitioner, which do not blame you, for I was as lost as us, informing us that the pediatrician on call was not but that I could call, all while Vincent writhing in pain. After about twenty minutes and already aware, the practitioner, the pain came from the ears finally called the doctor. Then you take the temperature of the small, found that she had no fever and called him again.

Apparently only high fever requires medical attention, for when the doc found out he had not, replied that the practitioner was not an emergency and we just relocate the little one to the house because he was too busy to come. We never found out who was doing the doctor or if it actually was in the hospital.

name is busy pediatrician Jhony Paz Valderrama and as contained in the website of the Health Region of Tacna, is the Head of the Support for Teaching and Research and is also a university professor. Well hopefully if students meet people when you need it and not just when they please.

I wonder what would have happened if I had the small Vicente instead of an ear infection would have been something much more serious. What if instead of an earache had been on the verge of death or paralysis due to a brain problem. Then nothing happened. The doctor was busy Paz Valderrama. The child had no fever. So just send it to the house Miss practitioner.

However, when I brought my children to their private practice is another story. The doctor Paz Valderrama is completely devoted to care, it shows new vaccines, speaks of the wonders of modern science, viviacidad praises of your children. It is a good physician. Of course, then you have to pay a large sum money for your attention and buy, if possible, vaccines that it offers the best seller of telemarketing.

The story ends with my little son in a private doctor, and calm after the professional care offered. Diagnosis: Otitis. Nothing serious, but painful for a child of two years. Nothing serious fortunately, because of having been bad luck. The doctor examined him Paz Valderrama simply because he had fever and was busy. Lindo my doctor.

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ON GESTALT TO MY UNDERSTANDING (9 th delivery) AGAINST

believe that the contribution of humanistic psychology Gestalt is rich in many ways, but if one of them stands out, in my opinion, is the contribution made regarding the therapy formats group, or Group Therapy.

We are all, at some point in our lives or continuously, in a group. Some characters are more akin to belong to groups, and others are more solitary. But the group membership is critical in many animal species, and in humans as well.
When we told a group of people, neuroticism @ a @ each (remember in previous releases?) starts strongly : Show the "best" of each; behave as we were taught that we must do, Compare, ay! the comparison. If you have said or not said, if I do not have responded. If you have done better than me, if because I treated differently ..., If I wanted to say but dare not, if it is my turn to speak in public, I lock, etc, etc ...

The group is itself a breeding ground for emotions and conflicts. Sean internal bone, which does not manifest, or whether external, ie manifest openly what I think happens, or happens to another and mounted the mess. And this "mess" affects every member of the group and group unity as well.
Yes, very often conflicts and difficulties are multiplied in the groups and is useful and necessary to re-register otherwise first, and as always, within one or a , and then pay attention and awareness as I stand, where and place in the group.

sometimes commented that Gestalt Therapy is like a laboratory where we can explore and experience what in life show costs us, or feel, or understand that feeling. In group therapy understand that is especially well. is one of the best laboratories for learning.
Perls (remember, the creator of Gestalt) emphasized the effectiveness of individual group framework on why acted more forcefully in the resistance of the individual. He was extraordinary working a kind of individual to the group session, using it as a special troupe, which became an energy resonator.

Perls said if the Group ceases to be "the person as it is, it becomes a healing agent. And this is, for me, a very important point. To which Perls concerned, is the space not believe absolutely healer.

The trial is usually a constant in our minds. learned to judge and to judge others rather small. Gradually, it has built an interior or a judge, who is always talking. Who knows what is right and what is wrong. This character inside, causing much suffering to people. Power
show, to let you be as you are with a group, and receive the look and energy of the trial not by the people who compose it, is a healer in itself.

will conclude with a quote from William Schutz , recognized university professor and a founder of the Esalen Institute in California, which developed a unique technique of working group, joining in it, several different disciplines. Says

As others understand the differences disappear and instead there is the human uniqueness, the same needs, the same fears, the same struggles and the same desires. We are all one.

Until next month, thanks!


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the "Senderisme conscient to the Vall de Rocabruna"

Spring, explosion. Outbreak of life everywhere. Energy that comes from mother earth, flowing outwards. Energy expansion spring, if spring ...

Animals of all kinds surround us and accompany this valley, green, water . Looking, looking, without trial, so this area of \u200b\u200bhealing.

found Rios, emotions that come together. Interspersed energy, power and presence .

days pass, the Presence in us increases. Something happens, we call transparency in Gestalt. Bet for me, experience as well. Well, yes, well, learning. But ... another word that is not right? :)

Free will, more than ever. Yours and mine. Free will is always in its deepest sense, at all times, which is now always .

Group unsurpassed certainly for me. New partner, a discovery. Thanks to everyone s , thanks. men and women, sensitivity to the surface. Caring for her
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Good path, if, well ...

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On the gestalt in my opinion (8 th delivery)

Well, in continue where we left off the previous delivery . Three chapters it, we have devoted to trying to learn a little more as work is @ s @ s neurotic in all of us and so "happily" keep us into oblivion. Always taking into account as we work, we try to turn us know and aware of our own / or neurotic @ from Gestalt Therapy.

If you have not read the previous installments ( 6 th and above 7 th ), you may be difficult to follow the thread of what I am writing today. If this topic interests you, you can check these deliveries: www.rhumb.cat .

We had seen the first two mechanisms neurotic introjection and projection . Two mechanisms gentlemen, I wonder if you could see ... the rest does not fall short. They are also very skilled and often achieve its purpose to perfection, remember, stay on not realize from yourself and therefore take the responsibility to protect you, the answer to you and to others for yourself @. Ultimately protect you grow and mature.

Let's see how the mechanism of the confluence . The definition I find in the SAR is: "... where they join other rivers and streams." And yes, we could say it is. Why when different types of water flow or merge or mix, is impossible to differentiate, they become one. When this occurs between two or more people are using to protect the junction. Now we will see how.

While in the womb of mother , and the first months after birth, we are all converging, are part of mom, feel what she feels, us what it is. not differentiate between us and the environment.

Later, realizing that we are independent people , and during our subsequent development we will deploy our preferences and tastes , our criteria and personality. is something healthy and necessary for growth. example would be adolescence, which say no to dad and mom, is part what it takes to create and believe their own personality and grow healthily.

The convergence becomes a problem when still present in adulthood. When I just do not distinguish the other me, I do not know what my criteria, which is fine me what the other does or does not do or say or not say. I am also confluent when even knowing what I want, I do not defend it , and continue to one or another. at all costs I avoid conflict and confrontation . I camaleonizo with the environment. I think the only way will be accepted and loved @ @. And so I perpetuated in the state of the baby, the child.
In our society, can become a person assessed positively confluent. A dominant personalities tend to be comfortable to them. They're fun if you have to be fun, are elegant if you have to be elegant, "stick" where they go, and above all, giving no problems or complain.

We return to forever, if you are confluent and you're good, nothing to object. But if something inside you move to rise, if you're uncomfortable @ your closet full of chameleons, discover your personality and show it can help to further develop that at some point it was interrupted.

continue with the penultimate the defense mechanism that I will write, known to many and many, the retroflexion.
The retroflexion is the unconscious decision to "return to me what I can do or say to the other or another. In most cases, what retroflectamos are negative feelings.

I can not show my anger towards the other? I get angry with me. I can not show my anger, my helplessness, my restlessness, my disagreement? I blame myself for not getting it done, for having wanted to be there, for, by, by ...

is like that called "boomerang effect", but without the like. Why the problem is that the strong energy (which is usually remember a negative feeling) which originally comes from within outward direction, then returns with the same force and impact and remains in me equally.

From Gestalt look as forms of somatization retroflexion.

According Peñarrubia Paco, are treated organ damage inflicted upon us instead of responding to the environment: I can get depressed or have an ulcer instead of facing who I systematically harms, for example.
Finally, write briefly about the last mechanisms I've decided to show you, deflection, also formerly known as desensitization.

Deflection is what we call (in the vernacular and with permission), "shirking." I think this is well understood. For example:

That I do not feel like getting into a dialogue that I offer, and now I feel lazy @ to serve you? Then you prop a joke, an ironic comment, or I will wonder for a spin on the conversation. Anything to not establish intimate contact, and stay on the superficial.
is like playing a tennis match and rather than return the ball with the racket, devote myself to run around the track trying to make any opponent's ball to touch me. dodging.
I will do my best not to feel, that's the premise of the deflection.
This mechanism leads to disconnected of others and the environment, not be empathetic and give us no relationships in depth.

Personally, I think live in a society that suffers deflection. In some ways it is as if we were being deaf all your training to divert attention.

multitude of professions and activities also need the deflection, the feeling not to go ahead. How else could we be destroying the planet necesitamos para vivir?

En fin. Hasta aquí este paseo por los mecanismos de defensa según la Gestalt, a mi entender claro está. Espero que os hayan servido a tod@s para algo más que para coleccionar teoría. Espero que os hayan ayudado, aunque sea muy poquito, a intentar defenderos de la conciencia un poco menos. Aunque humano es defenderse, y legítimo también.

Un abrazo y hasta la próxima entrega, en la que os escribiré sobre "la Terapia Gestalt en grupo". Feliz mes!


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